The Family Business Glue No One Talks About (Until You Snap)
You keep the peace, fix the messes, and pretend you’re fine. This post is what happens when the “glue” in a family business stops holding it all together.
Nothing is wrong. No fights. No betrayal. Just a relationship that stopped asking anything of you — and that’s why it feels heavy.
Nothing is technically wrong, but you’re exhausted anyway. Not from conflict — from staying quiet to keep the relationship stable. If things only work when you edit yourself, that’s not peace — it’s emotional management.
The business works because you’re always on. If you slow down, things wobble—because what you built runs on your vigilance, not structure. That’s not leadership. That’s a system that never learned to stand on its own.
You keep the peace, fix the messes, and pretend you’re fine. This post is what happens when the “glue” in a family business stops holding it all together.